Girl meets boy,
there is a connection (or so the girl thinks anyway),
several dates have gone past,
mushy things have been said,
lots of physical activity even.
HOWEVER
boy has not made any commitment (and almost seems like he'll never get around to it),
and has not officially or unofficially asked that she be his main squeeze/roll with him/be the mother of his children etcetera, etcetera, etcetera.
SO ...
Is boy just obtuse, or
Is he deliberately not defining things; and
Should the girl with all the trepidation in her heart and her brain gone to sleep, ask the question no girl should ever have to ask:
“errr….what’s up doc?”
6 comments:
I would ask!!
Sure it is a scary conversation ot have cause it can go either way but aint it better to know where you stand and move on or not?
hmn.........
From Boyz Perspective:
Boy is most likely not serious bout dating....especially if he has alot of unsures about his future..
Boy may have a galfriend and need not re-commit since he is getting a listening ear, luv, and much desired *wink* free of charge
Boy may really like her and does not want to hurt her feelings by entramping in a r/ship.....y not jst continue this way making if formal makes it less appealing
If she were my sister...
Ask in a subtle way......... it never hurts to know ur stand
Stop *wink* for a while lets see if thats all he is interested in..
Saint
Funny, I'm in the same situation myself... my opinion, ask but be ready to walk away if he doesn't commit.
It's very painful hanging in there if he's not that into you.
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the truth is
if he's not asking u out
then he's not into u
ur best option??
bounce of course
Oh my, men are soo....(complete it)
Pls don't ask him whats up o!! If it was any use he would have brought it up.
Walk with your head held high, if he doesn't realize what a gift you are...the joke's on him.
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