Girl meets boy,
there is a connection (or so the girl thinks anyway),
several dates have gone past,
mushy things have been said,
lots of physical activity even.
HOWEVER
boy has not made any commitment (and almost seems like he'll never get around to it),
and has not officially or unofficially asked that she be his main squeeze/roll with him/be the mother of his children etcetera, etcetera, etcetera.
SO ...
Is boy just obtuse, or
Is he deliberately not defining things; and
Should the girl with all the trepidation in her heart and her brain gone to sleep, ask the question no girl should ever have to ask:
“errr….what’s up doc?”
