Wednesday, February 27, 2008

Vox Pop Series- I

A colleague’s friend is in a dilemma:


Dude met and fell in love with Girl.


Under normal circumstances Girl would be wearing Dude’s ring on her finger by now.


Instead, Dude is applying the brakes.


Because sometime around 2BD (2 years Before Dude), Girl dated a married man.

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

Cant blame the dude cos i will do the same thing too...

It means the girl has got it in her to always do that; it mite sound harsh but its a fact!

babeandahalf said...

The funny thing is that this was the opinion of most guys I asked this question. But it's really sad cos it just goes to show that society has double standards! I suggest that while we are hanging girls who date married men, we might as well HANG, DRAW & QUARTER the married men who patronise them!!!

Anonymous said...

Perhaps because Dude is scared that 2AW (2yrs after Wifey), he'll be dating a single girl!!!!....lol....Is it unforgiveable? I'd say no, because we're all human and afterall, what's "love"...isnt it saying I dont give a hoot what happened in your previous life before you met me?....oh well,....he must not have loved her, and only thought he did....but then,...to people who still cling to the "old school notion"
that marriage is sacred (like me), dating a married person is just a NO-NO!!...heck, what goes around comes around.....

anyways, to whoever this dude is, I wish him the best....

Unbiased said...

That is BS because dude musthave enough dirt in his cupboard as well.
It just aint fair at all. He doesnt deserve her. Reminds me of randy boys sowing their wild oats and looking for virgins to marry. It is irritating but it happens. so so sad.

Jennifer A. said...

That must not be the ONLY reason why he's applying the brakes. Surely all they've experienced while being "in love" must cancel out all past mistakes. I'm thinking other factors probably contributed to the application of brakes too.

Anonymous said...

Nonsense.....why should the guy care........this was before they dated...na wa 4 men sha...double standards....

ladel

saint said...

hmn..

its easy to ask why did she date the married man?

expecting he divorce her or she was just so lost in lust?

either way.. wats wrong is wrong but love conquers all things

if i really do love her ill not think too much bout it..

the funny thing about advising on r/ships is when u just say "this is jst wrong" the same happens to u and ur helpless.......